Implementing Control

Implementing Control

Fiction - (Humor)

It’s a clear, hot, muggy night. Finally, the moment has arrived. You have decided that it is time to implement complete control over your potential slave. You and your potential slave drive through the dark, dank, seedy part of town. The windows in the car are rolled up tight and the car doors are locked. A scary ride but a ride worth the risk. Soon you arrive at the LCC (Leather Control Chamber). As you approach the LCC you are greeted by three leather clad, muscular leather daddies, AKA the Disciples of Control. You whisper the secret password to them. The three Disciples say no words, they only give an approving nod. They guide you to the chambers entrance. As you enter the chamber, your eyes feast on the giant spin wheel. One of the Disciples of Control instructs your potential slave to stand on the x. Suddenly the spin wheel starts spinning at an incredible rate. The spin wheel shoots out narrow laser lights in the colors of the leather pride flag also in the mix are the hues of the earth. The lights bounce off the walls and floors creating a thunderous and almost deafening roar. After fifteen seconds of light, sound and fury the spin wheel comes to an abrupt stop. A voice booms from the floor and bellows, “Through the powers of the Disciples of control you will now obey your master and feel his control.” Your potential slave is now your 24/7 slave, forever available to accept your will and control.

Reality- (Hard work)

Sad to say there’s no control chamber and there are no three Disciples of Control. In fact, when it comes to implementing control, it’s a long arduous task that takes knowledge of yourself, your slave and your goals. Most importantly, it takes time and patience and trust.

Through my experience I have found that before control can be implemented a foundation needs to be laid out. This foundation needs to consist of clear and concise direction. The slave needs to clearly understand what is expected of them. The range of expectations can be endless. These expectations can be in the forms of protocol, speech, attire, chores, service, the list goes on. Because the list can be seemingly endless, the implementation of control needs to happen over time. Control , to me, is not something that can be achieved quickly. One needs to make sure they are implementing control and not implementing chaos. Utilizing patience and time can assist in avoiding chaos.

How much time does it take to control? That depends on how much time the master is willing to put in on a day-to-day basis. The time frame can also be dependent on the slave’s willingness and ability to shed their previous skin and let go of his or her previous wants and desires. There’s no set timetable. It’s an ongoing process that doesn't need to be rushed.

Another reason that time becomes an issue is because total submission / total control needs to be earned by both parties. Both masters and slaves need to make sure their counter parts aren't nut jobs. Masters and slaves need to make sure that trust is in the long-term picture. At first, the Master needs to step lightly, investigate. For example, does the Master wish to take control over the slave’s finances? Are the slave’s finances a total wreck? Does the slave need to do some work themselves before handing the control to you? Sometimes before you can implement total control, the parties involved may need to initiate research and self-control. From there, the more trust that can be built up over time, the more a slave will find the willingness to give total submission. This trust will allow for the Master to gain and implement more control. Trust is an amazing thing. When trust is in the mix a slave may very well find them self submitting more than they thought they could. Masters may find themselves acquiring more control than they ever imagined.

We need to have trust in ourselves, in our slaves, and in our Masters. We need to trust to one another in our community. We need to feel that we are doing the correct things / following the right path. With the support of one another we can slide into a comfort zone that will allow us to control and submit to our fullest potential and desires.

I do believe it’s very important to make sure that the master is aware of his or her own needs and desires. I feel if a master is in touch with what they want then the Master will stand a better chance of implementing the control they desire.

Regardless of the scenario, time is a crucial issue. You need to walk before you can run. In the beginning of our M/s relationship, we were deconstructing nearly 20 years of a vanilla relationship & marriage. It was more effective to dole out my will and control in small doses over a period of time. We had to move slowly to avoid destroying a wonderful relationship that we'd worked on for years. When it came to controlling barb I implemented control in stages First would be speech. After a certain vernacular was perfected then I would move to attire, after I had control of attire I would start to work on service and so on. Some of these things would take an hour to implement, others would take days or weeks to implement and develop to perfection. However, my objective was to not over load her. I believe that if you overload someone you will start to meet unwanted resistance. Once barb would get the hang of one thing then I would take control over that and move to another. This would allow for a much less stressful and a more seamless shift of control.

Now comes another ball of wax. Once the “programming” is complete and all the pieces are in order, how to maintain the control. Does one micro-manage? Does one let the slave fly free and learn from their own errors? All that is up to the individual master. But I do believe in order to maintain control masters need to pay attention to the details of the household. They need to pay attention to the orders of the day, they need to pay attention to protocol and make sure everything adhered to. There’s a lot of work to be done. The idea of implementing control should not be taken lightly. Control can slip away quickly and almost invisibly. Masters beware, stay on point and make sure everything is in its proper place.

Tools for implementing control

Communication – It’s important to keep up strong lines of communication. Too often masters don't speak up immediately when they see things going off the desired track. Before you know it, you can start to become dissatisfied, you may begin to feel disgusted and pissed about the direction of the relationship. Communication is a great key to drive your points home and stay on top of the slave’s life. Communication (if used properly) can facilitate control.

Punishment – The scary and effective tool. Punishment can show you mean business. You have control, and you will implement control, and punishment is not out of the question. Sometimes a negative reinforcement can have positive results. Punishment can keep slaves on point. Fear can be healthy when used with discretion.

Rituals – Rituals can allow the slave to be in the proper mental place. Using rituals as a directive tool can assist in maintaining order and control.

Structure – A personal favorite. Creating structure through lists and time constraints. It’s a great way to control all of a slave’s time. I even schedule barb’s down time. This is time where she can study, read, go to the store, or just relax. But even that time is monitored and structured. She’s allotted a certain amount of time for her personal tasks or enjoyment. She’s aware that her down time is actually monitored and structured and not to be taken for granted.

Implementing control takes a lot of time, patience, and effort on both the masters and slaves part. If both parties are willing to put in the effort, the rewards can be deeply satisfying.

I hope everyone had a safe and Happy Fourth of July holiday. Please feel free to reply to this post. As always I look forward to seeing everyone on Sunday July 11th.